Living with BPH/Enlarged Prostate

I am 81 years old and is suffering from a prostate enlargement for about 10 years to date. At the onset I consulted my GP and he prescribed Pressin ( Prososin) tablets for me which up to this time of writing I am taking at 2 tablets daily, one at breakfast and one at dinner at night.

My concerns are:

1. there are times that I lose control of my
urination during my sleep and I wake up
feeling wet
2. when I wash my hands either hot or cold
water, there is an urgency to urinate

3. I have resorted to using Depend under
garment but at times, the undergarment
does not hold water and I find myself wet
all over.